What is Erotismen?

Erotismen is a lifestance founded on six important elements, that together creates the positive superego. Below we will define and explain the six points. It’s worth noting that Erotismen is one of very few lifestances in the world that includes and focuses on peoples sexual health.

  • The superego is the centerpoint: Who you are! The Whole. The positive lifeenergy created by the six important parts of life, which together creates the superego.

There are 6 important elements that affect and mold our lives!


Erotismen is working for a community that accepts who you are. Erotismen is a community for people who doesn’t want to live their lives according to how others expect («janteloven»), but want to live in a way that give themselves, and thus those around them, a richer, more honest, life. Everyone have social needs, and need confirmation from others that who they are is “good enough”, and has value, even though they see themselves as different from others. Acceptance and respect is important in Erotismen, and that you surround yourself with positive-thinking people that you can connect to, despite any differences. Erotismen recognizes that belonging is a developing social element, in that people that are accepted for who they are, in turn will accept the differences of others. Erotismen will work for respect and accept for everyone, including those belonging to other beliefs and religions.



Man is a social creature. Being seen, getting constructive feedback, respect/recognition for who you are, is essential to develop a feel for you are and your role in society. Recognition in society contributes to developing self-respect.



Respect for yourself and your own worth is important. In Erotismen, this is one of the parts that creates the entirety of your positive life-energy.


Physical health:

Food, drink, sleep: Erotismen recognizes that people need the right balance of food, drink and sleep to live a rich and normal life. What this means in practice is defined by the individual, the culture, and current life situation. In addition to meeting vital needs, Erotismen recognizes the pleasure and wellness that food, drink and sleep can give.


Sexual health:

Erotismen recognizes sexuality as a basic human need. Erotismen promotes a positive and diverse sexuality based on each individuals urges and wishes. Every form of sexuality and self-expression is accepted, with consent between all involved parties. All forms of relation, e.g. monogamy, polyamory, random relationships, are accepted in Erotismen. Erotismen does not limit how you and any potential partners can live in, or through, sexual relations. Good sexual health is important for everyone, and Erotismen wants to facilitate that.

Mental development:

Erotismen recognizes that people are learning creatures, with a basic wish to grow and develop. It is important to support each individuals self-worth and free will in Erotismen. Therefore each one must choose when, and if, to start a process of self-improvement. Each individual need to define their own strengths and weaknesses, and what parts they wish to improve. Erotismen wants to facilitate that members through reflection and conversation about themselves are given the possibility to improve.


Summary: The Superego

All these elements are separately, and together, important to create the good and positive SUPEREGO. Erotismen as a lifestance wants to create a better world and happier people that is able to be positive, have an inclusive lifestance and an affirming lifestyle!